#Single - Its not so bad!

Now ladies I know that was not what you were expecting! However I'm coming to learn that it really isn't that bad. December 19' I fully decided to be single, despite my want for affection it really wasn't best for me to have it. Sometimes we really have to evaluate if we are prepared for real love and if we are able to give that to someone else. Honestly lets get into it, and I promise you'll consider yourself more in the relationship!

1. DO i love myself unconditionally?

YES you do, there is nothing like self love. Its the best true love you can create for yourself and be able to rely on at anytime. Are you able to sleep by yourself at night with no one holding you? Can you fully take your self out on a date, just sit and relax in your own space. If you said yes , well results are in you love yourself!

2.DO YOU NEED REAL TIME TO HEAL?

More and more I'm noticing the disconnect we have with ourselves in between Sitautionships and Relationships is TIME. Timing is everything including full healing to prepare you for the right one and for the right moment to receive real love. Taking your self out isn't just one of the first steps but even meditating in peace is calming for the spirit. Reading is definitely fundamental for constant brain activity for those who have anxiety. Keep yourself busy!!

3. Keep yourself busy!

And no work doesn't count, I'm talking go to the gym. Ultimately completely WORK ON YOU, that's the sole purpose of being single. Get those vision boards together, start to create the life you truly wanna live. Its all about YOU everything starts with you. So why not continue to prepare yourself for the right one and bask in your own ambiance for the mean time! It is all up to you to create the life you deserve.

So i have faith in you all to really consider yourself first with everything you do. You matter that much and you owe it to yourself to take a break and sometime to really get yourself together.

Always XOXO Red Zone - Jamie M